This is my favorite photo of Supreme Grandmaster Nam Suk Lee.
It is this one. It was after one of my private lessons with Supreme Grandmaster Lee, and I had my son for that day. I decided to bring him to the class. Ian, then about four, was all over the place.
I would do a form, and in the middle Ian would run up and want to wrestle with me. Supreme Grandmaster Lee was really good about it. He just smiled and kept teaching. I love these photos because Supreme Grandmaster affectionately put his arm around Ian, like telling me he was ok with me being a dad with a "wild" four year old son.
I was happy with the ground Supreme Grandmaster Nam Suk Lee covered in our San Pedro YMCA. The many times I had met him here and in Korea, he had a very serious side. Maybe guarded…That was no longer apparent. I think this was a turning point.
I knew at this point our training was as much about compassion and mutual benefit mentally, physically, spiritually and emotionally. We had taken it to the next level.
Supreme Grandmaster Lee always was happy to see Ian when he came along with me. He knew I was a struggling single parent, and he build a bridge between the three of us with his compassion. This symbolized he was “Cultivating Capability” in his actions with creativity, flexibility and awareness to me, and Ian. Ian still remembers some of those moments.
When I see this photo with Supreme Grandmaster Lee’s arm around my son, I feel it is around me too. In addition I perceive around our YMCA youth program and his adult students in San Pedro. We had both changed definitively though this and many other moments like this.